If you’ve ever wondered Will Hypnotherapy Make Me Feel Out of Control, you are not alone — and that question deserves a real, honest answer. I’m Judith, the hypnotherapist behind ANUNE Hypnotherapy & Wellness, and I hear some version of this almost every week: “What if I say something embarrassing? What if I can’t come back? What if you make me do something I don’t want to do?” These fears make complete sense. They also rest on a misunderstanding of how hypnotherapy actually works — and clearing that up is the first step toward something better.
What Is the Hypnotic State, Really?
The hypnotic state is not unconsciousness, and it is not sleep. Think of it as a deeply relaxed, inward-focused kind of awareness — similar to the feeling you get just before you drift off at night, or when you’re so absorbed in a good book that you lose track of time. Your mind is actually more alert in some ways, not less. The American Psychological Association describes hypnosis as a genuine psychological phenomenon that can influence perception, sensation, and behavior — not a parlor trick, not mind control.
During a session at ANUNE Hypnotherapy & Wellness, guided by the proven Krasner method, your conscious mind quiets just enough to let us work with the subconscious patterns driving the behaviors you want to change. You hear everything. You remember. And if I suggested something that conflicted with your values, your mind would simply reject it. That’s not a loophole — it’s how the brain is wired.
You are always the one holding the steering wheel. Hypnotherapy just helps you see the road more clearly.
— Judith, ANUNE Hypnotherapy & Wellness
Hypnotherapy for Fear of Losing Control — Addressing the Real Worry

Here’s something I’ve noticed after years of working with clients from Durham to Chapel Hill to Raleigh: the people most worried about losing control in hypnotherapy are often the ones who already feel out of control in daily life. They know what they should do — eat better, stop smoking, stop spiraling at 11 p.m. — but something invisible keeps overriding the plan. That gap between intention and action is not a willpower problem. It lives in the subconscious, and that’s exactly where hypnotherapy works.
So the real question isn’t whether hypnotherapy will take control away from you. It’s whether you’re tired enough of the current pattern to try something that actually reaches the root. Many clients tell me the session feels like the first time they’ve genuinely rested inside their own mind — steady, clear, and quietly powerful.
Is Hypnotherapy a Legitimate Practice?

Yes — and the evidence is solid. Research published by the American Psychological Association on hypnosis confirms its effectiveness for pain management, anxiety, habit change, and more. As a registered nurse licensed in North Carolina, I bring a clinical foundation to every session. Hypnotherapy at ANUNE Hypnotherapy & Wellness is not a replacement for medical care, but it is a recognized, research-backed complement to it. You can learn more about our approach on our about page, and explore the full range of what we offer on our services page.
What a Session Actually Looks Like
- We start with a conversation — no pressure, no agenda, just listening.
- I guide you into a comfortable, focused state of relaxation at your own pace.
- Together we work with the subconscious beliefs or patterns connected to your goal.
- You emerge feeling calm and clear — most clients describe it as refreshed, not groggy.
- Sessions are available in person in Durham and online across NC, so geography is never a barrier.
Whether you’re in Cary dealing with stress-driven overeating, in Durham wanting to quit smoking for good, or logging on remotely from anywhere in North Carolina, the process is the same: grounded, guided, and entirely led by what you want to change.
Cost is a fair question too. A free consultation and a free first session mean you can experience this for yourself before spending a single dollar. After that, ongoing sessions are priced to be accessible — reach out to discuss what a plan might look like for your situation.
If Sunday nights feel heavy with the dread of another week in the same loop, or if a health scare has made the cost of staying the same feel suddenly real — that moment of “what if this actually works” is worth following. Imagine feeling the version of yourself you already sense is in there: steady, clear, making decisions you’re proud of. That’s not a fantasy. That’s what we work toward, one session at a time.
Ready to find out what’s possible? Call ANUNE Hypnotherapy & Wellness at (919) 298-0031 or contact us here to book your free first session. No commitment. No risk. Just a conversation.


